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#SoIHaveAFriend: He’s a very outgoing individual and loves to chill with friends and the person he may be dating at the time. He’s currently single mainly because he’s unhappy with the selection of women he’s been attracting. He’s able to deal with the late work hours and the going out with girlfriends thing. Those insecurities questions were my first questions I asked him about. His main concern is the SMOTHERING word that is a turn off.

The last girlfriend he had was always wanting to be around him and go everywhere together and he felt like he never got a chance to just think about her because she’s always there. So instead of telling her he distance himself from her which ended the relationship overall.

So my question is, “What are some things my friend can do to address the women he dates next with his issues about smothering and not spending so much time together back to back but over time?” Personally, I believe that time allows the heart to build the desire to want to be around your significant other more and over time spending time will be understood together.

Let me know your thoughts and suggestions below in the comments section and I’ll check in with you soon!