Q. Should you make love to gospel music?
A. Not my thing, but I can’t say it is wrong if you feel that the music adds to your experience. A listener clued me in that Bishop TD Jakes has a CD of love songs for married couples. So clearly there are a lot of people rolling spirituality into their carnal pursuits.
Q. Is lust only about a one night stand?
A. Not at all. People can be in lust for a very long time. If all a hook-up is about is the sex it will eventually fizzle out on its on out of boredom or wanting more. People can definitely make a lustful situation last longer than one night.
Q. Dating a new guy for a few months and he brags on his oral game but doesn’t perform as often as I would like. I please him orally all the time. Is that fair?
A. Not at all! You need to roll back on your oral game until he gets the hint that this is a 50-50 situation. Don’t be bashful tell him how you feel and if he cares he will definitely step up to the plate to please you more.