You were asked to take an HIV/AIDS test from your lover and your test came back positive! After the realization has set in that your lifestyle must change, now it’s time to break the news to your friends and loved ones. It’s not easy, but it must be done!
How do you tell someone that you’re HIV positive?
- Give others an informational brochure or send them to a Web site or hotline where they can learn more or get support for themselves.
- Be ready for questions. Decide which questions you’re comfortable answering.
- Decide how much advice you want from others, then let them know if you just want them to listen instead.
- Be prepared for a variety of reactions. Some may be shocked. Others may fear getting HIV from you. People who distance themselves from you at first may not do so out of a sense of betrayal or lack of caring — it may be simply fear of losing you. They may just need some time to adjust.
- Remember to make yourself a priority. You cannot control others’ reactions. Have a support person lined up to call afterwards or even bring the person with you for the discussion. You might plan to spend the night at a friend’s house that night or schedule a therapy session for the next day.
- If you need more support beforehand, join a local HIV-positive support group, contact a local HIV/AIDS organization, or call the National AIDS Hotline (800-CDC-INFO). It’s open 24 hours a day.
- Be prepared for many questions:Why did this happen?Am I sick, too?Will I become sick?
Will you get better?
Who would I live with if you die?
SPOTLIGHT
My friend Radiance Melson-Pittman stepped out on FAITH and produced a ONE WOMAN SHOW about the importance of HIV/AIDS Awareness, how and who it affects, called “An Intimate Diary of Synthia“. Congrats to you Radiance! GOD is truly blessing you with your own ministry. Remember her name! Show your support and DO SOMETHING!
Related stories:
Black HIV/Aids Awareness
HIV/Aids Is Not A Death Sentence…
Black Celebs Lost To HIV/AIDS
FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER/INSTAGRAM @KIKIBROWN92Q
