Open Question Night in the Love Zone was crazy tonight! Here are a few of the Facebook and Twitter questions.
Make sure you join me in the Love Zone Sun.- Thurs. at 10pm for the freakiest, sexiest and strangest convo in the city. You can join the virtual Love Zone conversation on Facebook and Twitter by visiting www.ladawnblack.com for details.
Q & A
Q: Is it possible to just be in tune with someone that u have never met personally…but the phone conversations are so stimulating
A: most definitely … it is old fashioned dating where u forge that mental/emotional bond before the sexual one.
Q: I would like to know if it’s ok to get yours and leave your mate hanging…especially if you brought it too their attention many times before?
A: it is ok every once in a while but it will get old soon. as a couple u have to figure out a plan for mutual pleasure. no one wants to be in a one sided relationship.
Q: What do u say when u know two family members who are first cousins r n a sexual relationship….I’m so grossed out n angry by it I can’t bring myself to the right words to say without cussing them out n just stop it won’t work
A: unless they are kids, it is their business. all u can do is let them know that u know and ask them to respect your space/fam and not bring it around. other than that it is their business.
Q: LaDawn, can I really stick with a guy that lies so much? My man lies about anything, stuff that he doesn’t need to lie about…I know I can’t fully trust him but I can’t let him go. He does good things for me
A: u can stay if u can accept that he is a liar. if that is not a deal breaker for u and u can tolerate it — then stay. just know that u r willingly placing yourself in a crazy situation and u have to be prepared handle things if they get too bad.
Q: I ran into my 1st love that I only parted from due 2 the military. We have talked, spent time 2gether learning one another as adults. the twist is I still love my husband. we are currently in marriage counseling and separated. Right now I live as a single woman so I’m not sure whether 2 allow my 1st love and I 2 get close or just keep it cordial.
A: resolve your marital issues before really pursuing this other guy. it is the smartest and most fair thing to do for both guys. give your marriage a real chance to heal or fail and then think about what to do with this other guy.
