Choose One: Side Chick or Wifey???

OFFICE TALK: word around town is that it’s BETTER to be the “side chick” than the “wife” because you get MORE outta the relationship than you would if you were married! Have we lost our focus ladies? Would you rather be the side chick verses the WIFE???

Here’s what YOU had to say:

Cheryl Cappuchino Hayden ok…well i think its better being the wife (from experience) because you reap the benefits so much better…bills paid, a shoulder to lean on, best friend, plus if anything happens, life insurance, etc. .the side chick won’t get gurantees …like the wife…for instance, the side booty is just that, promises to them will always get broken…the man WILL NEVER leave wife for a side chick because his fam will ALWAYS come firstyeah side booty may get a few bills paid, but it won’t be as consistant as wifey’s.and the side booty may THINK they can control the situation, but when the situation hits the fan, she’s left to become someone else’s side bootylmao.

Jay Tek hell yeah we lost focus, it’s better to be faithful and committed, after all that is what marriage is. So many people are soooo selfish, and want their cake and eat it too. Gotta learn how to be committed, it keeps the drama down. That goes for men and women!!!!!

Keisha Scott-Massey I am a wife and I put in all the work while the side chick gets all the benefits…I know that’s not what anyone wants to hear…but I am being quite honest…whether you want to agree or not. Wives get lied to and cheated on all for the side chick. Yes, the side chick does not get the full time man but why would she? She can see your man when she wants to with out putting in the time with kids, household work, bills. A side chick DOES not want a lifetime…she wants right now.

Cheryl Cappuchino Hayden ‎@Keisha…i can see where you’re coming from, but being the side chick (or may have been one of few) back in college, the right now would be all the time, and I couldn’t get all of that because they had other places to be…other obligations in life. Some side chicks do want that lifetime and some just want “whatever they can have at that time”. Plus as the side chick, I may wanna hang out, i don’t want the dude sneaking me places. lol

You way what?