Didn’t Know You Landed in the “Friend Zone”?

When a girl tags you as just her “friend” then it most likely means that you are not included in her list of potential boyfriends. This is usually very tricky since if you haven’t known it yet, all your plans to get her are most likely doomed before you can even start. Before you get your friend to girlfriend stage, you have to know the top ten signs that you are in the friend zone.

So if you ever plan on courting a girl you first need to check for these ten signs to see if she has already tagged you as a friend or not so you can carefully plan your next move:

1. She talks about other guys with you.

If this is the case, then you have probably already been tagged as a trusted friend. If a girl talks about other guys candidly with you it is an indication that she is very comfortable with you and doesn’t see you as a potential lover.

2. Shares everything to you.

Generally, women are shy and scared to share almost everything to the guy of their dreams. If she shares her thoughts to you even private stuff then she is definitely not interested with you as far as being a potential lover is concerned.

3.  She doesn’t flirt to you at all.

Try to flirt with her a bit either verbally or physically. If she doesn’t respond with it then she is definitely not attracted to you at all and only sees you as her friend/

4.  You are like a brother to her.

If she tells you that you are like her a brother then she definitely doesn’t see you as a potential lover and only someone who is there for her and protect her at all times.

5. She considers you as her best friend.

If she considers you as her best friend then this is also not a very good sign for you. Being tagged as her best friend indicates you are deep in the friend zone categorization. You can be her best friend and lover but you need to be the latter first.

6.  She doesn’t bother dressing up for you.

If she doesn’t try and dress for you when you hang out with each other this is an indication that she is not interested in making herself look good in front of you. Women generally put a lot of effort to their personal grooming for the guy that they are interested in.

7.  You don’t have her full attention when talking

Try and see if she does other things most of the time while you two are talking with each other like washing or emailing or texting on her phone. If this is the case then she definitely treats you as if you were only a background and really not very interested in you.

8.  She does not spend a lot of time alone with you.

If she only sees you when with a group then this is bad news. If she does spend time with you alone but you are the one to initiate often then you are most likely tagged as only a friend.

9.  Treats you like a therapist.

Women generally don’t cry on the shoulders of the guy of their dreams because they are afraid they might scare them away. In addition, if she always does this to you then she most likely sees you as more of a brother or her personal therapist and a friend she can always cry on, not a potential lover.

10.  Your compliments aren’t special to her.

If your compliments bounce off here like for example you tell her how beautiful she is in what she’s wearing and all you get is a simple thanks then you are definitely in the friend zone. Women always react differently when the guy they like compliments them and most of them even blush.

Try and check for any of these signs because these are the signs that indicate you are in the friend zone and she does not see you as boyfriend material yet. If she does show these signs to you there are ways to turn all this around and get out of the friend zone and be noticed as a potential lover.Click on the link below to know the secrets to get your friend into girlfriend.