You say you USED TO BE GAY?

OFFICE TALK: I’m reading this letter from a listener (living in California) who met a guy who told her that he USED TO LIVE A GAY LIFE. But was recently saved and is no longer gay. She isn’t sure what she should do.

Here’s the letter:

Dear Ki Ki

 I met this guy a few weeks ago at a grocery store and after a few dates, he told me some intimate details about himself that knocked me on my ass! He told me that about two years ago, he was living a gay life but now that he’s been saved, he no longer has the urges he had when he was gay. Can this happen? Not that you’d know, but can you help me out here? You talked about the top 10 states that are highly rated in HIV and STD cases, I live in California and I know it’s on the list. He doesn’t “look” gay nor does he act gay. I’m really confused. What should I do? I like him, but am I ready to take this journey? What would I be expecting if I pursue a relationship or anything more with this guy?

I know, lots of questions, but I figured you’d put it on the Office Talk. Please help?

 Thanks in advance and love your show!

Here’s what you had to say on Facebook: www.facebook.com/mskikibrown

Jay Tek OK I refuse to judge him, however, if I was her, there is no way that I would pursue anything more than a friendship. That was very very noble of him to tell her up front, but REALLY who actually wants to deal with someone who USED TO BE GAY, just because you are saved, does not make those feelings go away, if that was the case, then so many people who are saved now, would never “backslide”, so HELL TO DA NAW, ain’t no way I would be involved in that situation in a capacity that is more than friends.

Andrea StillStandingthrewitall Jarmon Baby I have been here got married and found out after the fact that n his past he was on the down low!! So I have the t-shirt pants and jacket to show! Tell her to tell him kick rocks blow bubbles and lay down n pull the dirt up 2 his neck!… First of all God didn’t make him that way it is a choice and second u never no who or what he has done deed with! Run! Run! Run! Mentaly it is alot to take on not worth it! Hell tell her 2 call me I will give her the run down this kind of relationship is hard emotionaly! Nasty Cuda Brown!!!!!!!

Tavares M. Evans Although I find it hard to say that you USED to be gay, I know that the testimony of Donnie McClurkin shined new light on this very subject.

I will never fully understand how a man can say he was once attracted to other men, but now he isnt.…

But in all fairness, how can a woman claim that should used to be a hoe, but now she isnt? I just sometimes wonder if finding the Lord and getting saved, curves people TENDACIES, habits, or behaviors….