OFFICE TALK: Reading email today! This woman is having issues with her man of 3 years who recently FOUND A PERSONALITY! Is it jealously or immaturity (on his part?) Here’s the letter:
Dear Ki Ki,
Ok, my man and I relocated to Baltimore 3 years ago from Kansas City, MO. He and I are both in the computer business and have been pretty much all about US. We don’t have children and we haven’t talked about getting married so it’s not a big deal if anything changes in that aspect.
Recently, my boyfriend got a new job and has gained some popularity with his new co-workers. He’s going out more frequently now and he’s even started drinking. I’ve never seen this side of him. I ask him what’s going on and he says nothing and that I’m just jealous! After 3 years, I am all of a sudden jealous? Am I shallow or does it prove that I’m jealous if I move out or leave him? Should I hang in there and try to make it work?
Thanks chicka!
Brandy Y.
West Baltimore, MD
Here’s what you had to say on Facebook:
Carrie Caruso i dont think its so much a BAD thing but if he is not including her in his new way of life, then it is def an issue. sometimes people adjust to the environment they are in but if he is in a serious committed relationship, he should take her feelings into consideration.
A man working extra hours to support and having a few drinks doesnt warrant a break up.
