I hear folks say “Man! I just want a job!” and are surprised when the “job” they get doesn’t satisfy them they way they had imagined it would. So, would you now say you’re looking for a “career”? There is a difference. What is it? A career is the pursuit of a lifelong ambition or […]

We all have that one (maybe two) lazy co-worker that seems to get away with everything! They come to work late, don’t complete their assignments, refuse to contribute to ideas but always one to complain, last to check in and first to leave out! Yup! Stop stressing, fall back and follow these tips: Don’t get […]

I have been a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Incorporated for less than a year and since I took that oath, my life has been so amazing. I have gained so much respect for all the work this illustrious organization has done for the past 94 years and counting and I’m pleased to say […]

My trip to Las Vegas was the AH-HA moment that I needed to get back on my game! My girlfriends and I went to a restaurant that had a mechanical bull. When I asked if I could get on, the operator asked me about my weight. I wasn’t too embarrassed when I told him I […]

Please don’t try to be a hero in this frigid weather! Follow these tips and you should be good: During Winter Storms and Extreme Cold 1. Stay indoors during the storm. 2. Walk carefully on snowy, icy, walkways. 3. Avoid overexertion when shoveling snow. Overexertion can bring on a heart attack—a major cause of death […]

I probably shouldn’t have to remind you this but I figured it wouldn’t hurt to hear it again. When you’re outside in extremely cold and snowy weather, follow these tips when shoveling: Warm up with stretching and light activity before shoveling, exercising or beginning other strenuous activities. Wear a scarf over your mouth and nose […]

Today, I posed the question “would you rather be showered by gifts or compliments?” Here are your responses: Urban Informer By a check JazRae Unique Those are two different love languages some ppl need words others need gifts…..I myself like both lol Howard J Fleming Compliments…….love the inside job that last for a lifetime, gifts get lost, misplaced, […]

We all have that friend, co-worker, or family member that has no filter when it comes to expressing their true feelings about some things. When it’s gift giving time, is it me or do you want to strangle that ungrateful person who simply didn’t receive your gift well and didn’t try hard to hide it? […]

I think the entire country could agree with me when we all watched a real live train wreck last night when Bravo #RHOA (no longer a house wife) Porsche Stewart thought the Underground Railroad was manned by an actual train with a conductor wearing a hat! Really girl??? I mean, I don’t know much about […]

Everyone is running around with their Christmas lists, trying to get the best deals on this and that. Trying to make sure their families are well provided for on Christmas. We’re reminded as we drive into work who aren’t remembered during the holidays. Whether it’s the man at the intersection who holds up a sign […]

I have a special introvert in my life and sometimes it frustrates me when he’s not the social butterfly that I am, but he’s still special. He doesn’t like big crowds and he doesn’t like the limelight. He prefers a quiet night at home, in front of the TV and a snack in his hand […]

I lost a good friend about 13 years ago. Her name was Taunya. She was funny, beautiful and really smart! One cold night in Pittsburgh, Taunya, her friend Nikki and myself went out clubbin! We had so much fun! Taunya even took this guy from me when I told her he was cute! LOL She […]