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Is a 19 And 33 Age Gap Too Much? The Quicksilva Morning Show Weighs In
Source: Airiel B. / Radio One

A relationship age gap is stirring up major debate after a friend revealed that her friend’s 19-year-old son is dating a 33-year-old woman, and things are getting serious. The young man is technically grown and over 18, but listeners questioned whether he is truly ready for a relationship with someone well into her thirties.

On the Quicksilva Morning Show, the room lit up the moment the ages were revealed. The hosts could not believe the jump from nineteen to thirty-three. While the mom in the scenario fully approves of the relationship and believes the woman treats her son with love and respect, the dad is completely against it. That reaction matched most of the callers who chimed in during the show.

Chey Parker was very clear about her stance. She said she could never date a nineteen-year-old and described the situation as grooming. She argued that a teenager fresh out of high school simply has not lived enough life to relate to a woman in her thirties. Even if he is technically legal, she said the maturity gap is still too wide.

Quicksilva pushed back a little and reminded the room that some nineteen-year-olds can be independent and responsible. He noted that he had his first apartment at eighteen. Even still, when listeners were asked if they would approve of the situation for their own child, most said absolutely not.

Callers agreed that if the genders were reversed and a 33-year-old man were dating a 19-year-old girl, the reaction would be very different. For many, that was proof that the situation felt inappropriate on its face.

In the end, the debate came down to maturity, life experience, and the power dynamics that naturally come with a fourteen-year age difference. And from the reaction on the air, the city is clearly not here for this match.

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