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So I get this letter from a listerner (male) who has a bit of a dilemma:

 

I have a female friend that I’ve had a crush on for a few years. Nothing ever happened between her and me. We actually lost touch with each other and finally caught up online. She and I email and text a lot and sometimes, our conversations can get a little heated. She told me she was in a committed relationship but wanted to sleep with me because it was something she’s always wanted to do. I’m a guy, so naturally, I want to, but I don’t want to start nothing with her and her new husband. I’ve been cheated on before. If it does happen, it would be only one time. She lives out of state so it wouldn’t be anything I should worry about right? What would you do?

Here’s what you had to say on Facebook & Twitter:

Carrie Caruso Um, I wouldn’t sleep with her thats for sure. He needs to tell her if its more than friendship she wants, then she needs to leave her current man. She wants to have her cake and eat it too.

Rashawn Thompson Weldingent What he better man up and hit that !!!!

David Riley is she in a “committed relationship”, or does she have a “husband”? either way. leave her alone. As for: “If it does happen, it would be only one time.” Do people REALLY not know it ONLY takes “one time” to get someone pregnant?

Mwalimu Curtis Tell her you are honored that she thinks so highly of you. However, you respect Yourself, her and her Marriage to much to violate that trust. As men we have to set and uphold higher standards for for our community.

Andre Johnson Yo i think is a bad idea let it go because she’s married end of that don’t start none it won’t be none!!!

MakeupbyJessi  Yeah leave that alone! Smh

MsLexiWebb I say walk away cause if one person is hesitant, especially the guy then there must still be some

Lrose1218  call me when ur not in a serious/committed relationship

VernAlexander I would say proceed with caution…….

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