The things you say to your kids affect them mentally and when they are kids it becomes a part of their thought process. You can stop your kid from dreaming big dreams. What you may not realize is that you can be your kids worst enemy. Hurtful words can make your kids who they become in the world, so think before you speak. That’s why some grown folks can’t and shouldn’t be managers in corporate america because they didn’t get the right push growing up. Just my thoughts people.