Ask A Hood Rat receives tons of emails from loyal TUD readers everyday. They share secrets, ask questions and for advice about life issues. Each week Ask A Hood Rat will give her expertise and quite frank responses to the queries in hopes of helping, resolving or building upon a topic. This week’s question comes from Twitter:
Dear AskaHoodRat,
How can I get my man to stop cheatin?? Been 2gether 4 5yrs and his #sorrya*s can’t keep it in his pants! #smh
@AskaHoodRat That’s my friend’s man. #b*tchdontknow i don’t have those kinds of problems
Dear Anonymous,
Yeah sure, those are ya friends problems. Gurl, please! Yo’ man be cheatin’ on yo a** don’t he! Well first of all are you wack in bed? Like do you put it on him or jus be laying there like a virgin? Put it on his a$$ Gurl! OK, let me stop cause sex don’t keep a man from cheatin. If there is one thing I kno, a man will cheat on you even if you treat him the best, rub his back, top him off like a porn star and pay all his bills. I should kno, I was giving my last man all my food stamps and he left me for some ugly b*tch with a blonde nappy weave(she thought she was Nicki Minaj*rolls eyes*). You need to find anova man; wait how old is he?You know these young guys ain’t sh*t until they hit like 26/30 so stop tryna turn a boy into a man. A MAN knows how to treat a WOMAN! And how do you know he is cheatin? Did he tell you or did you find out, cause it’s one thing to cheat and get caught cause you was snooping through his sh*t but it’s anova thing if he being sloppy and disrespectful, just disregarding ya feelins. If you know ya man is a “sorrya*s” then deal with it or leave him, I mean it ain’t right that he cheat but don’t complain when a cheater cheat, ho*. Don’t expect nothing different from a lil boy.
I know it’s hard but my momma tol’ me “no man should have the power to bring you down and keep you there!” These chicks he cheatin wit probably laughin at you… OH No, b*tch get yo’ sh*t togetha… You worth more than that boo!
Just to sum this sh*t up~> You can’t get him to stop cheatin, he will when he’s damn ready to! Don’t leave your fate in someone else hand–he ain’t god.
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